Wednesday, May 12, 2010
I received a message via Facebook yesterday from I woman who does CrossFit with me.  We don't really know each other that well.  We don't hang out together outside of the gym.  I have no idea where she lives.  She doesn't reply often to my status updates and I rarely see updates from her so we haven't formed a social-networking relationship. 

Pretty much, we just work out together.

So I was a little surprised when I received a message from her and I was even more surprised when I read the message. 

She asked me to pray.  She found out over the weekend that her daughter (who I believe may be 17 or 18 years old) is pregnant and considering abortion.  She told me that she could tell that I was a Christian and that she needed all of her Christian friends to rally around her daughter and pray that she makes the right decision regarding the baby. 

I replied that I would pray and that I would share this prayer request with all my Christian friends (YOU!!!).  Will you please join me in praying for my friend's daughter.  I don't know her name and even if I did, I probably wouldn't use it.  God knows her, though.  Pray also that God would give my friend the words to say to her daughter; that He would guide their conversations and allow His grace and mercy to wrap around them both. 

So that's the not so cool thing.  You wanna know what the cool thing is?

She could tell that I was a Christian.

Me.

There are two reasons why this a pretty big deal.

First of all...have you ever heard of CrossFit?  It is pretty much the devil.  It's wild.  It's loud.  It's outta control.  It's one of the ways they train UFC fighters, I hear.  So when I am at CrossFit in between my deadlifts, pull ups, tire jumps and 400 meter sprints, I often say bad words.  I can't help it.  It just comes out.  It's not very Christian of me...I know.  (And I am working on that.)  So I run and sweat and lift and curse.  This is how my friend has come to know me.

Second, this might be the first time that someone from the real-world sensed that I was a Christian.  I didn't have to tell her.  She doesn't know me well-enough to know that I am active in church or that I have a serious passion for all-things-God.  She could just tell. 

That might not be a big deal to some of you suma cum-laude Christians.  (Yes, you know who you are.)  But in case you are wondering...suma cum-laude Christians are the ones who never "stole a pig" or had to "come to the end of himself."  I am envious of people who "got God" at a young age and didn't have to learn the hard way.  That is so admirable.  I flunked out of this Christianity thing a time or two and I am still not even close to graduation.

I used to be the girl you could count on to go to the bar and get hammered when you found out your boyfriend cheated on you.  I used to be the one who gave private lessons on the art of rolling the pefect joint.  I used to be angry all the time.  I used to hate police officers and preachers. 

I used to be a lot of things that I am not anymore.

And I am not saying this to glorify "self."  I am saying this for the glory of my God who loved me enough to pursue me despite all the things I used to be.  I am saying this to encourage those of you are in the throws of rebellion (or have kids who are).  I am saying this because God is the great redeemer and He can fix anything that is broken.

Phillipians 1:6 says that "he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus." 

She saw Christ in me. 

She saw Christ in me.

That is so amazing to me...based on where I have been in the past.  It's almost unbelievable.  And if I didn't know that the author of this story happened to be the only uncreated one, I wouldn't believe it.

But it's all because of Him.

Will you please remember to pray for my friend and her daughter?

10 comments:

Courtney said...

Your words inspire me. I used to be the girl who did lessons on rolling the perfect blunt. ha. I see so much of you in me, and the other way around. I love you so very much, sweet sister, and I am so thankful for your love for the Lord. I know it's the greatest thing in the world that someone can tell you're a Christian. I'm working on that right now. I want to make every decision for him. I want to take every step for him. I want every word that I utter to bring glory to his name. And I fail. Like, uber fail. But my goal is to be *that* Christian. The one who doesn't have to tell anyone she's a Christian. Sigh. Love you.

Alicia, The Snowflake said...

How sad. I will definitely pray for her. And what a beautiful testimony. God is so good! I love how He redeems us, makes us whole & then uses us for His greater glory. It's a mystery I'll never understand!

Critty said...

Amen. he is the Redeemer! As someone who has failed a time or two...or ten...I am so glad He never gives up on us. What a beautiful testimony Erin. All because of Him.

I am praying for your friend and her daughter.

Lindsay said...

What a great story, I will be praying for your friend and her daughter, and for you that you can continue (or start!) to reach out to her!

And yes, CrossFit is the devil...along with P90X!! :)

Stuff could always be worse said...

Yes do understand the praying and will be for her. Many young girls do not realize what a decision they are making. I know this from a friend this happened to
kim

Tia said...

I will be praying. These sitautions weigh heavily on my soul... for so many reasons. I know God is faithful in every way as we lift this young girl up to Him.

Alexandra Skye said...

I hopped over here because I was doing a search on the alabaster jar and your blog came up. I will pray for your friend. I know how painful an abortion can be...in the short and long term. It's simply horrific. I have a post on it on my blog that does not quite fit but it does show the long term impact. http://alexandraskye.blogspot.com/2010/05/hunted-by-justice.html

Stephanie M. Page said...

Hi Erin, What a good post. To stand out for Jesus in this world is such a desire and can be so hard!

I am so praying for your friends daughter!
AND Thank you for your comments on my blog. I think it is definitely the enemy. I am praying for you too as you are going through some hard things. Love and hugs to you friend. muah!

Kim said...

Sorry... I know I'm a bit late to the party, but I loved this post so much. Not the not good part, but the part where you let your joy out regarding how you were mirroring God's love. More than anything, that is what I want to be for Him. A perfectly tarnished and chipped mirror of his love.

Most everyone has a history. God chased me down... and I thank him for it every day.

Love your blog and thanks for making me smile today!

Wanda said...

Visiting you from Christy's place. Really enjoyed this post. Being Christian is not that we dot all the i(s) and cross all the t(s). We all need the Redeemer.

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